For caregivers

You’re 1,000 miles away. Be present where it counts.

Aging Sidekick lets you build a full profile of your parent's care from another time zone — voice intake, document upload, and a printable Daily Care Plan you can FedEx to the local relative. Each of you signs up, each of you sees the same up-to-date plan.

Aging Sidekick complements, not replaces, your healthcare team. In an emergency, call your local emergency number.

A daughter on a phone call at her kitchen table, reviewing a printed care plan for her elderly parent in another state
What is happening

The call from the neighbor.

It is the call every long-distance caregiver braces for — the neighbor, the building manager, the hospital social worker on the other end of the line. The flight is hours away. The local relative is at work. You are trying to take notes on the back of a receipt. The first hour is the hour the rest of the week is built on.

A long-distance caregiver at her laptop on a video call, with a printed care plan on the desk next to her
How it works

Eyes on the ground from another time zone.

Aging Sidekick is a web app with browser-mic voice intake — so you can do everything from your laptop, in your time zone, while the local relative is asleep. Talk it through, upload the discharge summary, and print a Daily Care Plan you can hand the local sibling or FedEx to the neighbor.

  • Voice intake from anywhere — 15 minutes, browser mic, no app to install
  • Document upload from anywhere — discharge summary, medication list, insurance card
  • Printable Daily Care Plan — hand it to the local sibling or FedEx it to the neighbor
Why you keep paying for things that don’t help

Long-distance costs ~$12,000/yr. Nearby costs ~$7,000.

AARP's 2021 Family Caregivers Cost Survey put the average family-caregiver out-of-pocket at $7,242 a year. Long-distance caregivers spend closer to $12,000 — flights, last-minute hotel stays, paid help they can't supervise, duplicate equipment shipped to the wrong address. A shared, up-to-date care plan is the single biggest thing that pulls those numbers down.

~$12,000/yr
Long-distance caregiver out-of-pocket (AARP 2021)
~$7,242/yr
Nearby caregiver out-of-pocket (AARP 2021)
~7M
Long-distance caregivers in the US (AARP/NAC 2020)
See it in action

Three screens from the product

Aging Sidekick voice intake — a 15-minute conversation in a browser, from anywhere

Voice intake from your time zone

A printable Daily Care Plan a long-distance caregiver can FedEx to the local relative

Printable Daily Care Plan

Upload the hospital discharge summary and get a plain-English read-back you can email to your sibling

Plain-English discharge summary

In their own words

What long-distance caregivers tell us

Built on trusted sources

Built with input from senior-care professionals

Encrypted in transit and at rest, access-controlled, and never sold. We are not a HIPAA-covered entity — see our Consumer Health Data Privacy Notice.

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The call from the neighbor: 5 things to do in the first hour

A printable, plain-language checklist of the five things to do in the first hour after the neighbor calls — who to call first, what to ask the hospital, what to write down, what to FedEx, and what can wait until morning.

The call from the neighbor: 5 things to do in the first hour

A printable, plain-language checklist of the five things to do in the first hour after the neighbor calls — who to call first, what to ask the hospital, what to write down, what to FedEx, and what can wait until morning.

Talking to your sibling about caregiving

The conversation between the long-distance caregiver and the local sibling is the one most families put off the longest. Who drives to the appointments. Who pays the bills out of the joint account. Who gets the call at 2 a.m. and who gets the call at 2 p.m. It rarely sorts itself out without a calm, written agenda.

The agenda below is one we wish we'd had — a one-page, plain-language list of the questions to settle before the next crisis, not during it.

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Talking to your sibling about caregiving — printable agenda

A one-page, plain-language agenda for the conversation between the long-distance caregiver and the local sibling — who does what, how decisions get made, what gets paid for and by whom, and how often you'll talk.

Talking to your sibling about caregiving — printable agenda

A one-page, plain-language agenda for the conversation between the long-distance caregiver and the local sibling — who does what, how decisions get made, what gets paid for and by whom, and how often you'll talk.

What we don't do (yet)

Today, Aging Sidekick is one account per caregiver. You and your local sibling each sign up with your own login, and you each see the up-to-date care plan. It is not a shared workspace — and we are not going to call it one.

A true shared family view — one care circle, role-based access, sibling-friendly notifications — is on our roadmap. Join the family-sharing waitlist and we will tell you when it is ready.

FAQ

Long-distance caregivers ask these the most.

Is this a shared family account?
No. Each person signs up with their own account, and each of you sees the up-to-date care plan. A true shared family view — one care circle, role-based access, sibling-friendly notifications — is on our roadmap. Join the waitlist at /family-sharing and we will tell you when it is ready.
Can my local sibling see what I update?
Yes — if they sign up too. When you both have accounts and you build the profile for the same loved one, each of you can pull up the same care plan, the same medication list, and the same discharge summary on your own device. There is no real-time collaboration today — if you change something, they will see it the next time they open the plan.
Do you replace a geriatric care manager?
No. A geriatric care manager (or Aging Life Care Manager) is a person — usually a nurse or a social worker — who can visit your parent in person, attend appointments, and coordinate paid help on the ground. Aging Sidekick is a planning tool you use from your laptop. Many long-distance caregivers use both: a care manager for the ground game, Aging Sidekick for the plan and the paperwork.
Is this an emergency?
Aging Sidekick is a planning tool — not a medical adviser. If the call you just got is an emergency — chest pain, sudden weakness, slurred speech, a fall, severe shortness of breath — call your local emergency number, or ask the neighbor on the line to call theirs. For everything else, the hospital's nurse line and the local relative are your first calls.

Start your loved one's plan free — takes 15 minutes.

120 minutes/month of voice on Premium; 15 minutes on Free. No card required.